Surgery Blues/Thanksgiving Joys

Posted on November 28, 2025 by Shellyyum || No Comments

So, it happened- I had my surgery and I had endometriosis, very badly and they also managed to scrap a lot of it away which is great but recovery time in two weeks for me and then I’ll return back to work on the 14th of December. I miss it. I miss being active and hate having to rest but I gotta because they did the surgery laparoscopic, and man does it hurt still. They gave me strong medication for the pain but I’m using it sparingly because it is a schedule II narcotic and I could get addicted and I don’t want that. Anyhow, I’m doing better since I had the surgery on the 24th, a few days before Thanksgiving. Better than missing out on Christmas. Plus, I made it to my deducible and out of pocket costs if you aren’t familiar with US private health care insurance. Once you reach a certain amount you pay for, then, your insurance company covers the rest of the year until the 31st of December. Then it rolls around for next year to meet a new deducible.

I remember the surgery starting past 1;30 pm, and ending when I woke up at 5:30 pm which is crazy. I think it was a long surgery to what I remember but I do remember shivering like crazy because of the anesthesia and warming up thereafter. Regardless, I have a follow up appointment on the 12th with my doctor, my gynecologist and in that appointment, she’ll access how I’m healing and what’s the next steps. I’m worried for endometriosis is a chronic condition and will come back and this surgery was to confirm it and take out my tubes so I can’t have kids, that was extra; because endometriosis makes it difficult to conceive and I wasn’t worried for nothing. I’m worried about that appointment. And I’ve taken off two weeks from work to heal and rest. Rest I am and not able to carry anything due to my wounds in my belly. I don’t win sometimes, it feels like, anyhow Thanksgiving came and went and I managed to celebrate it.

And Thanksgiving marked Marley’s birthday too! 11 years old! How did that happen? But to be honest, she hasn’t left my side the entire time I lay in bed or otherwise as she is my constant companion throughout it all. She truly loves me the most and maybe more than my husband at times, or they can tie or whatever because this type of love is beautiful. Of course, she has needs and I meet them whenever she asks of them, and for that I am grateful to be spending my time in bed with her because I know I’m never alone. Happy 11th birthday to this sweet girl!

Managed to go to Thanksgiving celebrations this year but they weren’t long and I was always ready to go when needed since I’m still healing.

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